My German boyfriend?

He is 7 years younger than me and we are living together in asia- he don't have job and i have a good job- he is dependent with my money and this seem to be a problem with my parents- he's not interested to work bec of a low paying job in my country- when i ask about marriage, he always say he dont know yet- he always called is parents back in east germany he seem to be very talkative when he talked in german sure, i cannot understand then. I am afraid i am getting old everyday i might miss the chance of meeting the rigth man for me since he is living with me in my country. Please help.